One must first love themself, in both mind and body, before
they can, in good conscience, love another.
When there is a deficiency of love for the self, one requires others to
fill that hole with the love that they offer.
While they may be willing, this pressure to do so is an unfair
expectation for anyone.
If one doesn’t
love their body, one seeks those who will love their body; if one doesn’t love
their spirit, one seeks those who will love their spirit.